It troubles me that the writer of this commentary is a psychologist. First, I don't get the whole "comfort with aggression is sexy" bit. If a dude is going to drag me back to his cave by my hair, I want him to at least feel guilty about it. Second, is aggression really what we want in the next president? I think we've had plenty of that over the past eight years. You can take a stand and be tenacious without necessarily being "aggressive." Trying to reason with someone and speaking respectfully are not negative things in a politician - they're actually quite refreshing.